Well folks, we made it! Another year under our belts. Out with the old and in with the new. I’m sure I could add a few more cliches but I think you get the idea. This year is 5775 in the Jewish calendar or תשע״ה. Over the past week and a half I’ve gone through quite a few of the symbolic foods that we eat on Rosh HaShannah, but I’ve now come down to one of the more difficult ones, at least from a visual and palatable point a view. The fish head, or for the daring, the sheep/lamb’s head. Yes, you read that right. The head. At the dinner table. Staring at you. You can imagine how your niece, the vegan, is going to feel about this one!
Most people I know use the fish head, and just eat a little bit from the cheek area (which by the way is the best part!). Additionally, it’s usually only the host of the dinner that does the actual eating of the meat, while the rest look on, and then quickly remove it from the table in case some of their fellow diners have weak stomachs. A little play on this that my mother does is she cuts the heads off jelly candy fish and passes those out for all of the guests to indulge in. The kids love it and the adults get a kick out of it. Plus, no one gets queasy from seeing a disembodied candy fish!
One year, my father actually got a lamb’s head. While we were impressed with his resourcefulness and his desire to fulfill the mitzvah to the extreme, the head had teeth! It could have been still chewing grass next to us it was so life-like! We very quickly made him remove it from the table after he said the blessing, and requested that he use fish heads from then on ONLY! For the rest of you, here is a fish and a lamb dish that I hope you’ll enjoy and I wish you all a healthy and a happy new year!